Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Countdown
In the early 1980's and before, if you had leftovers or a to go box from a local eatery you would heat them up in the oven or on the stove top. Then, everyone purchased and now owns a microwave for the most part. No one thinks twice about eating fried spaghetti any more. This is a shame.
Inside your house you could put your life on hold and not worry about what was going on in the world for a few minutes. Putting your feet up and unplugging from the world outside became a thing of the past with television in the 1950's and the internet in the 1990's. So what else could you do to get away?
You could leave the house and get out in the world, but then everyone started carrying cell phones so you were never too far away from someone reaching you no matter where you were. Now we share our pictures, thoughts and social status on Facebook, Twitter, MySpace (seriously, who still uses MySpace?) and whatever else you can think of.
I feel like I'm done. I've toyed around with the idea of leaving Facebook behind like I did my other social networking page several years ago. But how absurd is this? Writing about how I'm thinking about not having an online page about myself anymore? What the hell is going on?
If I added up all the time I spend on the stupid computer and Facebook, I'm sure at the end of the day/week/month/year I could be accomplishing something. Even if it is something small. I think I'm over it.
Here is a video portraying how I'd like to run away...
Friday, June 18, 2010
Blah Blah Blog
This fall as I enter the season of my senior year, I hope to make a transition academically. Well, not so much the academic side of being a student, but what I do with my "free" time while there. My profession of choice when I exit college is to find a job as an assistant sports information director or maybe sans assistant. The guys that run the SID office at my school have agreed to take me under their wing. I'm feeling pretty good about the idea of getting back to more writing. Something that was severely lacking last year as sports editor for the campus newspaper.
My core classes for school have pretty much concluded. Now it is all a matter of wading through electives and a few other requirements. So it continues. Waiting for the next big thing to happen. I'm just hoping that this jumping from lily pad to lily pad does not continue to the point of me just waiting to transition to death eventually. I'm positive this is just the outcry of someone who is tiring of juggling 15 credit hours of school along with a 40 hour a week job that consists of telling people how much I understand their shortcomings.
I stayed up tonight partaking in an activity I used to really enjoy. Reading about World War II on the Internet. With the advent of Wikipedia, it has watered down the thoughts and opinions of everyone from former U.S. military vets to Holocaust deniers who post their thoughts on Angelfire constructed websites, but it still works. Tonight I focused on the bombing of Dresden and asked myself, "was an attack of this magnitude necessary? Did the Allies use sound strategical logic bombing a cultural center rather than focusing on the factories on the outskirts of town?" All this pondering, while still maintaining my status as everyone's favorite commenting asshole on Facebook.
I know why I stay up late at night. I know why I chose to stay in the job that I am in while I am preparing for something else. A quick note, I would have an interest in staying when I'm done with school if I am presented with an opportunity that doesn't make me feel like I only needed a middle school education to perform my tasks. I digress...
I seem to be afraid of what the next day will bring. I force myself to stay awake because I know something is around the corner that is making me anxious. I don't know what that is, but it seems like it's out there. Maybe it's because I've worked a succession of jobs that do not engage me mentally and intellectually. Maybe I'm so adjusted to the ho-hum mundane worker bee mentality that I'm getting nervous about the prospect of becoming the equivalent of Moses emerging out of the desert after 40 years.
Anyway. Time to actually face down my bed and the prospect of waking up again to watch the USA play Slovenia!
Monday, May 24, 2010
Certainty
One song struck me in particular tonight and it has to do with my wife. Our relationship goes back quite a ways. More than 10 years now as a matter of fact. We have only been "together" for half of that time, but the parts where we tried and failed are what I'm tackling with this final piece, among other themes.
This is pretty quick, but it resonated pretty deep tonight. In September of 2000, I was on hiatus with my on again, off again girlfriend at the time. Stephanie, was on with her on/off again. But I didn't care. I was in Omaha and I was going down to the town where we met, Maryville, Missouri. I didn't know what I was doing, I just did it. I had just confessed my feelings for her from the previous year when we met after all. I had to see her. I had to do something.
I skipped out on my cousin's wedding reception and set off for the campus of Northwest Missouri State with no plan. I didn't have a place to stay. I had not a clue what Stephanie and I were going to do. We ended up going to Kansas City. I did the typical dinner and a movie, which for the night was Olive Garden and "What Lies Beneath." It all ended innocently enough with me dropping her back off at her dorm, and me grabbing a spot on my friends couch who still went to school there.
But what made me even post this tonight was digging up the Bob Marley song "Waiting In Vain," which musically and lyrically is very germane to this part of the story of my wife and I.
I distinctly remember driving the back highway to get to Maryville in my white Volkswagen Golf, listening to this song with the admin building and the high rises on the horizon with the sun setting behind my car, thinking "I am certain this will never work out." Thus proving that certainty is never certain.
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Riot!
Over the weekend, as most of you Kansas City news watchers or readers will know, there was a disturbance at the Country Club Plaza in Midtown. As most residents know this is an upscale, outdoor shopping center with nice restaurants and bars sprinkled in. Saturday night as many as 900 minors between the ages of 11 and 17, reportedly descended upon the three block district and proceed to harass, assault and vandalize person and property.
These are the facts from the perspective of the local media reporting on the story. The other major component of the story being reported by the press and television is the response by the police. Officers were dispatched to the area to break up large packs of kids and teens with pepper spray or mace. Most of which were just walking around in groups. Granted they were slowing traffic to a standstill, which is more than the normal pain it is to drive there, but mass amounts of pepper spray?
Two things disturb me about the activities of the kids and the actions of the police. First, we’ll address the issue of why were 900 or more kids at the Plaza past 10 p.m. on a Saturday night. There is widespread speculation as to how and why the event was organized. I’ve heard reports from kids being upset about schools being closed to having nothing better to do. I really believe more of the latter, and I’m alright with that fact, I can identify with being a teenage loitering nuisance because I was one at a particular point in my life.
What I take an issue with is the amount of reported vandalism, assault and sexual harassment as most people would, not their right to gather in mass groups in any particular area of town. My most obvious question is “where are the parents?” At group of 50 or so kids I can understand. But nearly 1000? This shows more of societal and fundamental flaw within the ranks of the parents whose children were participating in the late night gathering. I’ve read in the Kansas City Star some city council members are talking about developing more programs for kids to be involved with. I’m certain this could help, however parents becoming more involved with the lives of their children would remedy situations like this further and should be the basis of preventing issues like this from happening. Yet not mention is made of it. It seems to me that calling out parents for doing a subpar job of raising their children is taboo.
What’s more, is that if I were involved in some of the reported beatings and vandalism and my parents caught wind of it, specifically my father, would have had some physical things to say to me. Where are the fear based consequences for kids acting out like this in the home? Better yet, are the people who would carry out the punishment available?
Let’s be honest here, and this is an issue the Star and local television news will avoid, but most of these kids were African-American minorities. Kansas City isn’t the most race friendly towns I’ve ever been in. Suffice it to say it may be one of the worst in the Midwest. All you have to do is look at a census map and focus the demographic on race. You wouldn’t exactly call this place a melting pot. So why isn’t this being addressed in the paper or on T.V.? You can be assured it has the potential to spark further conflict. Whatever the case may be, no one wants to touch this one with a ten foot pole and most will just hope it gets swept under the rug.
The second problem I have is the actions of the Kansas City Police Department. I have talked to people I go to school with who were down on the Plaza that night and say people who were just walking around were maced or pepper sprayed by officers with little to no warning. Incidents were people were beaten or harassed I’m sure had reached the officers in and around the area, however the reaction was not surprisingly over the limit of just keeping the peace and dispersing the group.
In situations where large throngs of people can quickly escalate and spiral out of control, a firm and even-handed approach may pour water on the fire. The KCPD seems to have had other plans in mind. And now, with the prospect of white people from the suburbs looking to other places in town to take their business, fearful business owners will most likely call on the police to step up security in the area to make people feel safe. However, if things do start to come to a boil, will regular people who just want a nice evening out be left out of the crossfire? Based on the confusion from Saturday night I would be inclined to say no.
For the next six weeks the area will be teeming with officers, plain clothes officers and mounted police. The ranks of Kansas Cities finest will be protecting mostly white shoppers in an oasis of Kansas City social and economic segregation. But you have to stop and ask yourself, where is the concern for the violence in the areas located directly to the east of the Plaza? Star writer Tony Rizzo released a three-part story last spring entitled “Murder Factory” that nailed the zip code of 64130 as the highest homicide producing area in all of Missouri. More killers locked up in Missouri prisons and penitentiaries hail from this part of town, which is narrowly divides it from the Plaza by Bruce R. Watkins Drive.
Most likely, the issue will die down because most kids will be discouraged by the heightened police presence in the area. Some may return, however my prediction is you have seen the apex of this “movement.” The problem is not gone, as most people will probably assess the contrary as they gradually come out of their hiding places and back down into Midtown. The thing to keep in mind is where will something like this happen next? The Power and Light district where the owners of the operations have already targeted minorities based on a dress code? Or, God forbid, somewhere in Johnson county?
The disenfranchised made their presence felt, or kids acted up with nothing better to do. You’ll have to decide which is the truth. Although coming to any conclusion may take you to a place regarding the community and city in which you live that you would not dare to bring up at a Sunday barbecue.
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Obligatory
I had no outlet for my competitive nature after high school really. Since I have been in school I seem to compete against myself for my grades and others I guess you could say. I've made the dean's list every semester since I have been at Park. When I went back and was accepted in the fall of 2007, I started a separate blog to keep track of the experiences. I should have kept it.
This blog was the driving force in bringing me back to something I have had a passion for since I was in high school, and probably before that. Writing, and more specifically journalism, is something I feel a great deal of attachment to. I've worked very hard at it since returning to school in January of 2008. I've endured trials, tests and rewards. My wife and I bought our first house. We adopted a dog. I lost a job. I got another one. I lost that one and got my current one. We bought a Great Dane. Through those ups and downs, it is nice to begin to see some of the payoff.
Tonight I attended an awards ceremony for Missouri colleges. Our paper won sweepstakes, which is an easy way of saying all the points compiled for our efforts in about 30 categories were added up and were higher than any other school in our division. I won a few individual awards, but this sweeps award was pretty sweet. It's still sinking in what we accomplished. The sum of our parts equals the top paper in the state of Missouri among colleges our size. I'll let you in on a little secret, in the big boy division, the University of Missouri which is thought of as a premier journalism school, did not win. That's not to say it's not a quality institution for our profession, because it is, but this shows that you don't have to go to one of those schools to get a quality education and practical experience for journalism.
Monday, March 1, 2010
How To Stop Being Me
I decided it would be a good idea to go back to school, get my stuff together and finish a journalism degree. Since then, my recreational writing has been reduced. I'm not happy about this. I don't want to say I had a loyal following, but I did. People enjoyed reading my stuff and it was encouraging enough to make me believe in myself. Now, I'm not sure if anyone reads this anymore. Since I only write about once a month I wouldn't blame anyone if they didn't.
In my time of non-recreational writing, I've moved from reporter to sports writer to columnist to sports editor at my school newspaper. Not too shabby for the past year and a half. I even had ambitions to be editor of the paper. After some conversations, I hoping to realize that goal. I think I've lost focus on what put me on this path in the first place.
I've made mini resolutions about getting back on the writing train. So, I'm not going to do it now. If I don't post on here for another three weeks, so be it. If I start writing every day again that's fine too.
I just think it is time to whip myself back in to shape.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
A Question of Faith
Just seeing the above trailer is enough to make you reconsider some things if you are Catholic and raising children. The cat is out of the bag now, so to speak, so you wonder how much of this is really still going on. However, having actually seen this documentary it is enough to break your belief in the Catholic church. It certainly broke mine.
Without a doubt a majority of priests were not child rapists, I certainly encountered none of this as a kid and to my knowledge, neither did any of my friends. It is challenging though to identify yourself as a part of an organization who remained complicit in one of the most disturbing and shocking revelations in the 20th and this century.
This isn't the first time that Catholicism has been under the gun for controversial reasons. If you know your history, you know what I'm talking about. If you don't, it isn't that hard to find these days with all the information of the internet at your fingertips.
So, as I approach the age of 30, and while my wife and I are planning for kids getting my head around the prospect of taking my children before a church that not only turned a blind eye to these actions but circumvented the law and allowed these monsters to remain free and continue to practice their form of dirty religion is a challenge to say the least.
One thing you have to understand is that my family and my wife's family are both stout Italian (mostly) Catholic families. Our parent's generation isn't quite as hardlined as our grandparent's, however revealing to our parents that we are deciding to take our children in another direction as far as faith goes would be shocking to them.
So the question remains, how hard have people fallen into this with the Catholic church? Is it certain that Lutheran ministers or pastors at Baptist churches haven't raped children? Of course not. It's a big world out there and anything (unfortunately) is possible. Are people so fearful still of Hell that defying the church somehow puts them in an unjustifiable position with God? Does challenging a corrupt and problematic organization somehow cause you to fall out of favor with God? These I suppose are good questions to ask, but there lies the problem with the Catholic church in general. There is no room for such questions. This, coupled with the history, could make for one of the largest and long standing criminal organization with the best of intentions in the history of the world.
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
New Year
I will share that I am forming a new sports obsession that will no doubt get some ridicule from my friends. Soccer, or known to the other five billion people on the planet as football. Or futbol. I'm getting my toes wet by watching some Premier League games and learning the terminology, which is more difficult than I originally anticipated.
I figured since English football fans are so passionate about their clubs, I'd better pick a side and move forward. I figured cheering for Manchester United was like discovering the NBA and cheering for the Celtics in the 50's, or the Yankees in pretty much every decade in the past century. I thought Chelsea could have been a good choice, and they are one of the best clubs in the Premier League right now. But I think I'm going to settle on Arsenal. More on why later. For now, it's because their home uniforms are red, which works for me. It's my favorite color. Or colour.
Along with soccer my other Euro-passion will begin it's testing phase later this month. Formula 1 racing is something I have been very into for the past few years. I've gone on a few times about why it's much better than watching left hand turns all day, while beer swilling, redneck, racist homophobes cheer the "sport" on. So, much to be excited about despite college football commencing for the year.
School begins on Monday, so my schedule is about to become more hectic. Last semester about killed me, but the schedule will not be quite so grueling. To add to things, my unpaid internship in the Park Athletic Department begins this semester as well, which I am looking forward to with a ton of anticipation. Here is to hoping the great "go back to school" experiment pays off.
And just to show that turning 30 this hasn't detached me from being completely immature, I give you this...